A Heartfelt Guide to Choosing an Engagement Ring

With engagement and wedding season in full bloom, many of you might feel that quiet pull to take the next step. With this guide, choosing a ring will be a joyful journey, not a chore.

Regina 18ct gold ring with Kashmiri ruby

A Ring That is Inspired by Their Essence

Choosing an engagement ring is more than finding something beautiful. It is about discovering a piece that speaks to your partner’s spirit and captivates the sense of who they are, the little details they love, and the moments you have shared. The engagement should more , than any other ring, go beyond fleeting fashions.

Start by learning about the jewellery they naturally gravitate towards. Do they wear fine, delicate pieces, or prefer something with more texture and presence? What metal catches their eye — the warmth of gold, the cool elegance of silver, or the timeless grace of platinum? These choices reflect their essence, quietly and beautifully. Often, the smallest moments offer the clearest guidance — a fleeting comment about a ring they admired, a photo saved for “someday,” or the way their eyes light up when they see something they like. These are more than hints, they are glimpses into the kind of ring that would feel theirs. And if you’re still wondering, their closest friend is a treasured ally.Someone who knows their style and can help guide you, gently and thoughtfully, toward what would truly delight them.

As you search, let yourself be guided not by rules or trends, but by who they are — their laughter, their grace, their love of beauty in small things. The ring you choose becomes part of that story. Much like a treasure found by the sea, it should feel natural and timeless, as though shaped by the years and the life you’ve shared. Perhaps it will have a softly weathered finish, echoing something tumbled in waves and sand, a reminder of the precious moment you have spent together. A one-of-a-kind creation, worn close and chosen with care — beautiful on its own, but made even more precious by the meaning you have woven into it.

A Budget is Not a Rulebook

An engagement ring is a symbol of love, of commitment, of the life you’re building together. Its value isn’t found in numbers but in the intention behind it. When it comes to setting a budget, begin with what feels right for you, not pressured by expectation, but grounded in what you can offer wholeheartedly. If you decide to buy an expensive ring, you may consider instalment options, allowing you to select something truly special while managing your finances comfortably. Exploring the price of a ring can be helpful as a guide, not a boundary.

From the first spark of an idea to the finished ring, I’ll guide you through every step. We’ll explore different options to ensure the design truly reflects your vision. Whether you have something specific in mind or just a feeling, we’ll explore different possibilities to find the right balance between your vision and your budget.

Diamonds have long been treasured for being a symbol of commitment, but the world of gemstones is vast and rich with meaning. Whether you’re drawn to the timeless elegance and the light that diamonds carry or the soulful hue of a coloured stone, choose a gem that resonates with your partner and your story. Something that speaks of your partner’s uniqueness, their light, their quiet strength.

If you choose a diamond, take a moment to understand what makes it unique. Cut, colour, clarity, and shape influence how it catches the light and feels to wear, but above all, it should reflect your partner’s personality. For a more conscious choice, lab-grown or post-consumer diamonds offer the same enduring beauty while honouring both love and the earth.

The Perfect Fit — One Detail You Can’t Overlook

Amidst the excitement, one detail is often underestimated: the fit. A ring should feel just right. Take the time to get your partner’s ring size measured correctly — it’s a small act of care, but one that makes all the difference when the moment arrives. I offer a free ring sizer to help you along — an easy, accurate, and thoughtful step towards ensuring that your chosen ring becomes a natural extension of your partner.

Once you’ve got the ring, it is worth insuring it against loss and damage. Last but not least: as love requires tending, so does the ring. Gentle cleaning and occasional maintenance will make it last longer and look as luminous as the day it was first slipped onto their hand.

A Final Thought

With engagement and wedding season in full bloom, many feel that quiet pull to take the next step, to settle into something lasting, something real. If you’re standing on the edge of that decision, let the process of choosing a ring be a joyful journey, not a chore. Let it be about discovery, about love, about finding something that feels like it was always meant to be theirs — a treasure, plucked from the waves of your shared life, time-worn and perfect, a promise made tangible.

And when you're ready, I’m here to help you find it.